It’s never over till you decide it is
Posted on 10/10/2016
It’s easy to say that there is no solution and that it’s to difficult to approach some of the issues that you are facing everyday.
Let me tell you this – I have never been in a situation where I could not have done something more about what I was experiencing or doing at the moment. But I was very often (not so much now though since my attitude changed) in a situation where I could not come up with an idea that would solve the problem at hand.
This bought me to a realisation, the ideas that I generate come from me being sure that I am able to solve the problem. In order to be sure I need to be calm and rested, that gives me the confidence that I will be able to come up with the best solution possible – that is of course within my reach.
Now think about how you handle difficult situations ? Do you panic and look around for a thing to grab or rather an exit strategy that you can use to opt out of the current headache?
For me the key was to ask myself – what is the worst thing that can happen? Having answered that question there is nothing else that I can be scared of or insecure about since I took all of it and acknowledged it, thus making it part of the background of one of the possible realities.
Try that next time you are stressing out – remember that you are the only one who can lay down your weapon when it comes to a fight. Nobody can make you do anything, it’s your decision
- S Prev